I’m disappointed but I move on and do my own thing

I ask if everything’s okay once, then let it go

I keep checking in and offer to reschedule right away

I immediately rearrange my whole schedule and apologize

Never — I hold my ground even when they disagree

Rarely — only if they make a genuinely good point

Sometimes — I soften my view to avoid conflict

Often — I find their perspective is always worth agreeing with

Nothing. They’ll reply when they want to

I notice it but wait patiently

I send a follow-up message just to check in

I send multiple messages and feel genuinely anxious

No — I’m not available for that right now

I’ll help if it’s quick, otherwise I explain my situation

Yes, even though it messes with my plans

Absolutely yes — their needs always come first

Only for genuine mutual occasions — nothing excessive

Small gestures occasionally

I spend more than I probably should to get their attention

I regularly send money, gifts, or subscriptions — it feels worth it

Fine — their choices are their own

Slightly bothered, but I shake it off quickly

Pretty hurt and I think about it for days

Devastated — it feels like a betrayal even if we’re not together

Rarely — only if something specific prompts it

A few times a week casually

Daily — I keep up with everything they post

Multiple times a day — I track what they’re doing

It’s nice but doesn’t change my baseline much

It gives me a small positive boost

My whole day gets better — I think about it a lot

I feel genuinely validated and ride that feeling all day

They’d never say that — I’m always balanced

I’d hear them out and probably agree

I’d listen but secretly think they don’t understand

They wouldn’t understand — this person is different